Friends, Family or Freeloaders?

Most likely, you've been there before. Sitting at a cocktail party, meandering through the grocery store aisles or even gathered around the table with your extended family - somebody needs medical advice. Which seems harmless enough, this is a good friend, a family member or perhaps even just an acquaintance, but what's the harm in indulging their medical queries?

Well, in some cases, none. Maybe they just have a medical question, or want a clarification on something they saw on Grey's Anatomy. But what if they are looking for a quick diagnosis or prescription during a wedding reception? What's the best way to handle these situations?

Generally speaking, you are being approached because, simply put, it's easier and cheaper to ask you than to make an appointment with their regular physician. Also, they may value your opinion and by coming to you, it's a sign of respect. And while that may be flattering, it also can lead the way to more inconvenient solicitations, loss of income to your practice or even a serious misdiagnosis of a patient.

Here are some guidelines for navigating these scenarios:

Simple question - Simple answer
If your Great Aunt Sally just wants the answer to a question and it does not pertain to her health specifically... answer the question. She could probably find the answer herself, but you're sitting right there... show off a little.

Minor Issues
Giving advice is fine. Treating a first-aid situation is typically allowed as well. But when it starts to get into the deeper diagnosis stage or past the point of comfort, make sure you let them know that you think it's best if they visit their regular physician first. That simple cough could be the sign of something more serious... and you only want the best care for them, right?

Major Issues or Emergencies
Emergencies are covered under the Good Samaritan Law, but try and avoid getting involved personally with any conditions that seem more serious. Proper care means a proper examination, medical history and a host of other concerns you can't possibly cover when you're not in your office. If they insist you can help them, suggest they make an appointment with you - perhaps even offering to see them before or after your normal business hours.

Remember, even though you may be a good friend or even family, you still have a business to run. And more importantly, you want to make sure that the advice you're giving out is appropriate and correct. Be helpful, but not foolish.

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